In the age of information, are you actually seeking information or are you seeking affirmation? When you accept something as truth, do you seek out other sources that may question that truth or do you seek out outlets that continually affirm your truth?
“If they would just be informed.” I hear this statement often from people that are on a health journey and want the people in their closest circles to jump on board with them. The statement should actually read something like this. “If they would just accept my truth as their truth, they would then be affirming all the time and energy I have put into seeking out and creating this world view. Whom do they think they are for not agreeing and affirming my views?”
I especially see this with diets. Whether it’s vegan, paleo, keto, or the ‘hell no’ diet. It’s easy to then seek out references and data points that back up your view point. Seriously, how many 300 page books do you have to read that end with the same conclusion that gluten is bad?
If that is you (me included), you are practicing seeking affirmation, not seeking information. The information you do seek regarding the other view point is often to show those supporters NOT how your view is right but how their view is ultimately dangerous.
If there’s something more annoying than arguing with a person seeking affirmation, it’s arguing with a person seeking affirmation through fear motivation. This is our current presidential race right now. If so and so is elected, look at all the ways our country will crumble under their leadership. Relax, we will all be ok.
In honor of seeking information instead of just affirmation, I have a few challenges for you. [Read more…]
